Rosemary Warner ([info]rjw76) wrote,
@ 2008-11-26 23:34:00
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Alan Renshaw, 1918-2008
So, my grandpa died yesterday, not entirely unexpectedly, painlessly and peacefully, and with family at his side. Pretty much the best way possible for him to go.

Grandpa had a stubborn streak a mile wide when it came to doctors. The only time he ever saw a medical professional in his adult life was when his foot was run over by a double-decker bus. Ironically, this means that they have to do a post-mortem for legal reasons as he has no medical notes :P

Which is pretty much how I'll remember him, really- someone who was always very self-sufficient (and, of course, the small bit of me that is still four and being held up by him so I could pretend to be an aeroplane...)

I have one little request: no comments of random sympathy, as they make me twitch violently. I have not turned comments off as usually this is only done when someone makes a controversial post they know is wrong, and it also makes me twitch violently ;-)



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[info]perdita_x
2008-11-27 12:10 am UTC (link)
the small bit of me that is still four and being held up by him so I could pretend to be an aeroplane...

I think that's just incredible sweet.

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[info]i_am_toast
2008-11-27 12:27 am UTC (link)
I've always thought sharing good memories was the best way to say goodbye to a loved one. He sounds like a stubborn chap, but they're always the sweetest :)

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[info]silly_swordsman
2008-11-27 09:53 am UTC (link)
He seems to have had a good run, which is all any of us can ask for.

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[info]marcus_felix
2008-11-27 11:02 am UTC (link)
It's always interesting how we pretend to be aeroplanes, and not be in them, pilots or whatever. Our bodies seem so much more morphable to us at that age.

Sounds like the old chap had a good innings, and one ended ironically (as I frequently contend that all British stories should end) with that last visit to the doctor. I'll raise a glass when I next can :)

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[info]supermouse
2008-11-27 03:44 pm UTC (link)
He sounds like a star.

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[info]theinquisitor
2008-11-27 11:49 pm UTC (link)
So... his son (in law?) was a doctor, but he wouldn't touch them with a barge pole?

Awesome.

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[info]rjw76
2008-11-28 10:40 am UTC (link)
Son-in-law (the different surname is a fairly big clue, but obviously not proof). And yes.

Actually, occasionally he would speak to my dad in the hope of avoiding going to see a "real" doctor...

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